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Why I Share Shirtless Photos as a Pediatric Urologist — A Personal & Professional Reflection

Purposeful. Intentional. Professional. Below I explain the reasons behind images that some may find unconventional for a doctor, and why those images help me communicate important health messages to the public.

1. Overcoming Fear of Judgment

Highlight: Posting these photos is an exercise in personal growth. It helps me confront the question “Kya kahenge?” and teaches emotional resilience.

I use social media to train myself to remain calm and confident under scrutiny. A clinician who manages his own insecurities can better support patients facing theirs.

2. Approachability & Human Connection

Highlight: A relatable image reduces psychological distance between doctor and patient.

Small glimpses of my personal discipline — grooming, fitness, self-care — make patients feel more comfortable sharing sensitive concerns. Many have approached me because they felt a sense of attachment and trust after seeing my posts.

3. Demonstrating Self-Discipline and Self-Care

Highlight: How you live reflects the values you bring to care.

Whether a person values muscularity, grooming, or a classic masculine aesthetic, seeing discipline in a physician reassures them. It signals that I practice what I preach.

4. The Purple Cow Effect — Stand Out to Teach

Highlight: In a crowded feed, something different makes people pause.

The visual pause created by an unconventional image draws attention to captions that deliver value: sexual health education, child grooming advice, and practical guidance for families.

5. Setting Boundaries & Reading Behaviour

Highlight: Public posting is also a behavioural test.

Who lingers, who comments oddly, who follows every post — these actions reveal patterns. Recognising them helps me protect my professional and personal boundaries.

6. Response from the Queer Community & Professional Boundaries

Highlight: Attraction does not mean invitation. I remain respectful and clear.

I respect all communities, but I am clear about my priorities: family responsibilities and professional commitments mean I cannot reciprocate personal friendship or romantic interest when asked. My posts are about communication and education, not personal availability.

7. Summary — Three Pillars

• Personal growth: Confronting judgement and building inner calm.
• Professional strategy: Using distinct visuals to increase reach for important health messages.
• Human connection: Demonstrating the discipline and empathy that make patients comfortable seeking help.

Closing Insight

Authenticity builds trust. When a doctor shows himself as a disciplined, human person, that authenticity fosters stronger patient relationships than pretense ever could.

If this approach challenges norms, that may be a useful provocation. If it makes people reflect, it opens a path for honest conversation about health, grooming, and confidence.

Dr. Muhammad Naseem Javed

Endoscopic Pediatric Urologist

BSc, MBBS, FCPS (Urology)

*Ammar Medical Complex,* 8-Jail Road, Lahore

Daily except Sunday and Friday 3:00pm to 5:00pm *Ramzan Timings* *2-4 pm* Landline phone numbers:

04235754916

04235754917

04235754918

04235754919

*میں آپ کی طرف سے آنے والی کال کا نمبر اپنے کلینکل اسسٹنٹ سے شئیر کروں گا۔ کوشش ھو گی کہ وہ بھی آپ کی بہتر راہنمائی کے لیے آپ سے رابطہ کرے۔ تاھم غیر تسلی بخش جواب ملنے کی صورت میں یا کال نہ پِک ہوسکنے کی صورت میں آپ مجھے اسی نمبر پہ کال یا میسج کریں۔ 03008662892* WhatsApp

Second Clinic: *Farooq Hospital Avenue Mall DHA Lahore****** 6 pm onwards* Ring reception or *book through Oladoc*

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My services include but not limited to that I help parents manage their kids who have trouble with their genitourinary organs or their ability to pee normally (by medically or surgically treating them). I help adults manage their erectile/ejaculatory dysfunction and infertility. I help elderly get rid of their miserable symptoms due to blockage of urine. I help women who have had hard time controlling their urine. Bedwetting, ADAM, genitourinary cancers are dealt under my specialty domain.

I also provide telephonic consultation for limited time to those who for some reason cannot afford to visit my clinic. In addition I adopt bodybuilding as a hobby and can provide authentic medical information regarding this activity..